I have had the privilege of living with extraordinary men in our Conventual Franciscan fraternity. During my four years as Guardian of Mount Saint Francis Friary, I helped facilitate the transition of three priest-friars to different living situations. Friar David Lenz and friar Keith O’Neill moved from community or independent living to care facilities. Friar Leopold Keffler moved to Mount Saint Francis Friary to access better health care and, in early 2026, made the Mount his permanent home.

Any transition or move may be a source of anxiety for a friar, especially when he moves from living in community with his Franciscan brothers to a care facility. Questions arise: “Who will visit me? How will I keep up with news and events in the community? Will I be able to attend Province celebrations and events?”

The sad truth is that, with smaller numbers in our Franciscan Province, those of us still in active ministry are called upon to do more and more. The needs of some brothers may exceed the ability of friars to meet them. The physical layout of some friaries may not be conducive for friars with limited mobility. The time may come when a Guardian must have a difficult conversation with a friar whose needs exceed what the community can provide.

Many of our seasoned friars continue in active ministry late in life. For others, changing needs make that impossible. Yet ministry does not end when a friar enters a care facility. It may take a different form through prayer, presence, friendship and service within that community.

When faced with these challenges, we sometimes focus on the negative aspects of moving to a care facility. Yet the benefits can far outweigh the negatives. Regular meals, assistance when needed and more opportunities for social interaction can all contribute to an improved quality of life.

I remember my second visit to friar David at St. Joseph’s Home. As I sat next to him, he grasped my hand firmly and said, “Bob, I am so happy to be here!” He can participate in daily Mass, Eucharistic Adoration, the Rosary and other devotions. David has even given presentations on St. Pio of Pietrelcina and St. Anthony of Padua to residents and staff.

Friar Keith’s move came suddenly and without warning. Our Province health care coordinator, Constance Neeson, obtained a placement for him at Nazareth Home in Louisville, Kentucky. Keith adjusted well and found his place within the community. As a social worker there said to me, “He’s Mr. Popular, Brother.”

Friar Leopold’s health needs brought him to Mount Saint Francis, where he could receive care while remaining close to his Franciscan brothers. After returning for a time to his previous ministry in Mississippi, he moved permanently into the friary community in January 2026.

All three friars have done their best to embrace these transitions with humility and grace. We must continue finding ways to include them in the life of their communities and encourage friars to visit and remain connected.

As I write this, I realize that the challenges these friars face are similar to those faced by many of our friends and benefactors. In times of uncertainty, the words of St. Paul ring true: “We walk by faith, not by sight.”